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in that case
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could you really be any dumber? it sounds like you've been bending over and taking it up the ass from this cockmonger (not just figuratively but also literally in all likelihood).
what do you expect from life when someone reams you a size twelve poop shoot and you turn around and scream, "I HATE YOU. ... .. but do that again."?
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did you marry him for his money?
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if not, did you get married after a day, week, or month of knowing this guy?
i will refrain from making any judgments but i find it hard to believe that any person with a brain would find themselves in this situation. |
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Brains???
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| No, I did not marry him for money. I knew him for 30 years. I was a friend of the family. You must watch too much Jerry Springer or deal with a lot of trailer trash. I have a B.S. in Mathematics, a masters in Computer Science and working on a PhD. |
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| because with a story like this you should be on jerry springer. and having a degree doesn't prove you're smart. 30 years and you didn't know what he was like? he must be a great actor... or something. |
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| ... can make you do alot of strange things. and not wanting to dig too deep, i'm sure she's had some sort of abusive background either mental or physical or both. nothing to be ashamed of and it's never really too late to step out of the cycle. just glad you woke up. |
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bean, don't be an enabler
| by Thwack | (trainedfighter@headbutt.net) | | on Mar 10, 2004 03:49:53 PM | | (#13711) |
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number one, I don't fucking buy anything this chick is saying, and that probably makes me biased. The lies have just kept getting bigger, and I suspect some Borderline personality disorder tendencies. Anyway...
Just because a chick is abused late in life doesn't mean she was earlier. It does happen, but you can't just go by stereotypes. What I'm saying, bottom line, is don't give this bitch the attention she so obviously craves. I mean, fuck, look what it did to ME. |
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could be.
| by Thwack | (trainedfighter@headbutt.net) | | on Mar 10, 2004 04:54:38 PM | | (#13720) |
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Edit:
Actually, I'd be inclined to agree. Of course, it's hard to tell over the internet. A lot of the borderline behaviors wouldn't translate well on the internet.
Diagnostic criteria for 301.50 Histrionic Personality Disorder
(cautionary statement)
A pervasive pattern of excessive emotionality and attention seeking, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:
(1) is uncomfortable in situations in which he or she is not the center of attention
(2) interaction with others is often characterized by inappropriate sexually seductive or provocative behavior
(3) displays rapidly shifting and shallow expression of emotions
(4) consistently uses physical appearance to draw attention to self
(5) has a style of speech that is excessively impressionistic and lacking in detail
(6) shows self-dramatization, theatricality, and exaggerated expression of emotion
(7) is suggestible, i.e., easily influenced by others or circumstances
(8) considers relationships to be more intimate than they actually are
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You need help.
If it's real...
Go see any lawyer. Any at all. Rake this fuckhead over the coals. You have plenty to get a divorce and a nice "severence package"-- And get your ass back to work-- It'll give you something to do... |
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| Since he froze the mutual accounts the day I said I had enough...Oh yeah, I have been working 7 days a week..I have 5 part time jobs. I work up to 80 hours a week. |
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uh...
| by Spanker | (munsterinthedark@hotmail.com) | | on Mar 2, 2004 06:56:56 PM | | (#13595) |
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if you divorce him, anything you two have made is made as a group
aka
you get half anyway, or something similar, especially if he's abusive
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divorce |
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| Shoot this fucker in his cocktail weennie steriod infested taint with a starter pistol...go to court and make a plea bargain based on trauma and abuse (self-defense might go over well) and bleed this fucker dry for everything he's got. Then find yourself a nice shrink...and get an Alternate ID (an alias to live under) so this fucker can never bother you again. |
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| Every woman who lives with an alcoholic...is a head case. Don't drink. People do not realize what they do or say when they are drunk.Ask my soon to be ex-husband???????????? |
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all i can think of...
| by raven | (duz ur face hurt its killin me) | | on Mar 3, 2004 07:30:22 PM | | (#13614) |
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"you married abe frohman, the sausage king of chicago."
fucking john hughes. |
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Look and Listen (to yourself)
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| You have just stated the obvious. The person whom you are married to (yeah I know those vows don't count for much these days) is 1) and alcoholic, 2) abusive, 3) sleeps around right in front of your face, 4) has a problem with other drugs, 5) has no obvious concern for you, your well being, or his own for that matter, and 6) is utterly repulsive in your eyes. Now, no offense, he may be an asshole, but you are taking it up the ass! You have spotted the problem and you shouldn't have to have someone tell you how to deal with it. I'm sure the friends you have, have already told you that you have some other options. You can 1) divorce, because any amount of money should not enough reason to stay, 2) relocate, and give him the ultimatum from a payphone -either go to rehab and stop drinking, and using tranqulizers and steriods (which shoot mens hormones through the roof), or you stay where you are and never give your whereabouts. Don't come back until he is in remission and you are safe. If he feels you're in the wrong, let him hire his own lawyer, and divorce you. NO situation like this is safe or healthy and you're obviously not doing him or yourself any favors by commiting to something neither person is commited to. Think about it this way: You're getting exactly what you want, your own money, your own lifestyle, and no one is dragging your self-esteem or dignity in the ground. Stand up for yourself or you'll continue to live in regret and be unhappy. You have the opportunity to do the right thing for yourself, so don't deny you what you deserve. |
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Slow
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| I am rebuilding my life....I just didn't realize what a great person I was and didn't deserve this kind of treatment. |
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| That you aren't like a bunch of stupid people I know and won't get out of a bad realationship. That is one thing that make me incredibly mad. So kudos to you for being smart. |
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and we haven't heard back at all (I love the flashbacks)
let's take a vote:
Is she:
1)Still with him?
2)Rolling in the millions while he laments the best thing that ever happened to him and the 2 states she put between them?
3)Teeth side down on the tracks after the 5:15 rolled around the bend?
4) YOUR GUESS???? |
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